Acknowledging family members or friends in a memorial ceremony

Weddings are one of the most emotionally charged occasions in anyone’s lifetime. Recognizing that deceased loved ones will be unable to share in this momentous event often contributes additional sentiments that are bittersweet.

The intent of memorializing loved ones is to create a touching demonstration of the infinite bond that remains with these special family members or friends. Couples wishing to formally acknowledge those individuals that remain present their hearts have a range of accessories and ceremonies to choose from.

The lighting of a candle has been used for generations as a way to memorialize. Today, Personalized Memorial Pillar Candles are available for use at weddings. These can include the names of deceased individuals along with the date of the wedding. This candle can be lit prior to or during the wedding ceremony. If desired, consult your Officiate to assist with the selection of a thoughtful verse to be used to accompany the lighting process.

Similarly, a Cylinder Vase can be engraved with a Personalize Memorial Message. This can be used to hold a pillar candle or alternatively used to display beautiful roses with each rose representing a departed loved one.

Another approach to recognizing deceased family members makes use of a small hand bell. As the name of each deceased person is read aloud, followed by a brief ringing of the bell. The ringing of the bell helps to symbolize the spiritual presence of these individuals. This can be done by the Officiate or a suitable alternative.

A less public, but no less sentimental approach to memorializing is the wearing of a “Wings of Love” pin. Tucked amongst the flowers of a bridal bouquet, pinned discreetly inside a dress or beautifully displayed along side a boutonnière or corsage, this unique pin has been created to evoke a sense of a “guardian spirit” . . . unseen but ever present.

Listing the names of deceased loved ones in the printed Ceremony Program is yet another way to acknowledge these individuals.

Regardless of what memorializing approach is taken, it is important to maintain focus on the celebratory nature of your wedding day.

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