The Bell of Truce
A quaint and old fashioned tradition that can be seen performed at many modern-day weddings, is the ringing and presentation of a Bell of Truce.
A part of the wedding ceremony itself, a bell is blessed by the priest or officiant and then presented to the bride and groom. The couple is then asked to ring the bell as one, while thinking of nothing but good thoughts of each other and of their future lives together. A special wedding favor that the bride and groom then keep in a place of prominence in their new home, it is a reminder of happier times, should an argument or discord intrude upon their wedded bliss.
At that time, one or other of the quarrelling couple can pick up the bell and ring it hardily as a way of calling a truce to the argument. The tradition being that with the tinkling sound of the bell the couple is instantly reminded of the vows they took and the happiness they felt on their wedding day when first they received the bell.
A lovely tradition and a great basis for a full wedding theme, bells of all shapes and sizes can easily be integrated into your wedding accessories and favors.
You may use the bells intertwined amongst a floral centerpiece, or scattered as bell-shaped confetti across the table. Use imprints and designs of bells in all of your wedding stationary from invitations to programs, and wherever there is a place where a visual image is needed.
As favors for your guests, bell-shaped chocolates or candles can be given encased in favor boxes stamped with a bell design, or guests can even be given their own bells of truce to take with them to use in their own homes.
While it may not end every argument, being reminded of the happiness you felt on your wedding day is sure to give you pause and to wonder if the argument can really contend with the love you feel for each other.
©2008 Weddingstar Inc.
