Tying One On
A Wedding is usually a formal affair, and thus the mode of dress has always reflected that with the men of the wedding party attired in tuxedos or suits and the appropriate ties. But today's more relaxed weddings and an increase in outdoor ceremonies, has meant that more and more grooms and their attendants are looking for alternatives to ties while still wanting to look their best.
For some the option is no tie at all, simply a dress shirt with or without suit jacket, worn open at the neck. A particular benefit if the day is hot. Still for others, instead of taking a step away from formality, they embrace it by looking to the bow tie instead of the standard neck tie.
In matching wedding theme colors, wild and fun patterns, or even basic black, the bow tie is a wedding staple that is finding new life today off of the traditional tuxedo as a popular and more laidback accessory.
Another accessory to match this laidback formality is the cravat. Seen in a number of modern day weddings, it can be worn with a long sleeved shirt and waistcoat, without need of a bulky suit jacket. The same can be said for simply wearing a waistcoat or vest without the necessity of even a cravat.
Dependent upon the type of ceremony, many grooms are also looking to other cultures, their own or a much admired one, for inspiration on how to rid themselves of the traditional western tie.
A marriage in Hawaii might showcase a strand of Kukui nuts worn lei-fashion, around the necks of the groomsmen, a look that was often showcased by the royalty of Hawaii back when a monarchy existed there. Finished and polished, they also make a great favor for guests in attendance.Similarly there are the floral leis that can be worn not only for a Hawaiian wedding but for any wedding with a tropical feel.
If your wedding has a more western edge to it, you can also adopt the less formal, cowboy-like Bolo tie, or adopt a tradition of the Navajo tribe by wearing a turquoise cuff bracelet and matching necklace (usually created by the bride as a gift for her husband).
Looking your best on your wedding day doesn't need to entail adopting a look that does not suit your groom's personality or style. If a tie isn't something your groom would normally wear, forget about tying one on and have him simply go without. After all it is his wedding day as well, and he should not only look, but feel his very best.
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